Although often associated with religious or traditional weddings, this English custom has stood the test of time and still appeals to many brides today, even for a civil ceremony. Including these four elements in your outfit adds a touch of magic, symbolism, and softness to your big day. It’s also a subtle way to create a link between the past, the present, and the future.
This small vintage detail symbolizes continuity and family roots. It could be a piece of jewelry passed down from a grandmother, a strip of vintage fabric sewn into your dress, a hand-embroidered handkerchief, or any accessory with sentimental value. It’s a way to carry a fragment of your story with you — a memory, a loving presence. Even a discreet item tucked into your bag or woven into your hairstyle can be enough to ground you emotionally.
Something new represents the future, renewal, and hope. It’s often the easiest element to include — your wedding dress, a pair of shoes bought for the occasion, a piece of fine lingerie, or even a fragrance chosen just for that day. It’s a symbol of a new chapter, the one you’re about to begin together.
The borrowed item symbolizes the solidarity and support of your loved ones. It is often lent by a friend, a sister, or a married woman to share a bit of her happiness with you. It could be a shawl, a hair clip, a piece of jewelry, or a barrette. What matters most is that it carries a story and connects you to someone dear. It’s a gesture of love and trust that will stay with you throughout the day.
Blue is the traditional color of purity, loyalty, and serenity. A subtle detail is all it takes — a ribbon sewn inside your dress, a hint of blue in your manicure, a vintage brooch, a small hair accessory, or even a bouquet featuring a blue flower. This discreet nod adds meaning and a poetic touch to your outfit without compromising your style.
You are free to honor these traditions in your own way. The important thing is to choose elements that resonate with you, bring you comfort, and make this day even more special. By including them in your civil ceremony, you add a personal touch filled with meaning and poetry.
